Tagarchief: friendship

People who still mean a lot..



Indeed… Beter een arme herinnering dan slechte herinneringen ..

Om Eerlijk te zijn,ben ik weer in contact met een oude vriendin. Ik zelf hecht er veel waarde aan..

Heb haar leren kennen toen ik t nodig haf in elk kader. Werd betrokken in ALLES. Haar verloving , bruiloft.  Ze zorgde voor me als zusje.. en Ooh wat heb ik veel te danken  aan haar. Op een gegeven moment. Contact dat op en af ging.  Tot ik mijn meisje kreeg toen was t weer geweldig leuk ouderwets gezellig en een warm onthaal.

Nu jaren verder met hier en daar wat pogingen . Zeg ik nu heb haar weer in  mijn leven en wil er niet meer laten gaan.. Boeit me TOTAAL  niet wat anderen denken of vinden.  Mijn keuzes . Zij weet waarom t contact soms minder tot er niet was. Alleen kies ik nu voor mezelf en laat ik die reden niet de reden zijn om haar niet meer in mijn leven  te hebben en van mijn kind. … İnshallah. ….


En dat is  een feit ookal denkt diegene er anders over dit voel en denk ik…

Be loyal stay true and respect those who deserves it..💖💖💖

L.O.V.E Mellissify


Just Don’t. ..!!



Just beautiful written … and it’s true though also.. I believe hahha..

Because we exually judge to much Way to soon  before we even know what’s going on in people there lives etc..
We also have the graving to be something your not cut out for  but life told you in your mind. Or you love someone you know will always hurt you. And so on and so on…

Kinda harsh the way I say this to you .  I made these mistakes also and maybe I still do.. it's  a habit we took  over.. . You know when your sitting drinking when the sun is shinning and you laugh about people  you see    … well everyone knows that! And we all do it… But it's a funny way

There is also a downside when you have jokes like that because you can continu it by doing it to your own friends and family. You just gossip al the time about everything and everyone. ..
Why I may ask.. why.. if somethings is troubling you. Just put it out there and talk. I will keep it at that and move on. But I will never talk about a friend like that  I will always show my gratitude  etc. In need or just because they are my friends…

Communicate people. .. that's it! The best solution  to many problems we have on a daily basis. …

Don't trust those who talk a lot.  Don't judge when your not walking in there shoes.  You may have a opinion but keep it to yourself.  Hard at times, but it will get better.

Never be jalous of what you don't have ..but apriciate the things you Do have!!

Peace everyone be humble and blessed. ..

L.O.V.E Mellissify




Doesn’t matter  what rase you have of colour.  It’s about you as a person. A individual and human.

Yesterday I wrote something about friendship. It is a subject that would be something you Always talk or think about.

” Is it real, do they really love me?”  All kinds of insecure things. But it’s also a pretection for your self to feel the friendship works both ways. Parenting, marriage and relationships are worth fighting for.  The same counts for Friendship  …
It’s not about the amount of time  You spent like I said earlier  (other blog)….
It’s in the small things. .

Letting know you are there when they need you and ask for it but silently give them hints your still there,care and be there   …..

True friendship is feeling whole with that person. And the energie you give each other and give and receive from one and another .

Be blessed….💜💜💜😍😍

L.O.V.E Mellissify