It is so hard for some people including myself to really think about your self own well being etc. I always will be reminded of the things I didn’t have to do because it makes other people better and for me it is worse.
I know a lot of people who always put them selfs a few steps behind another person if they doesn’t matter well on the contrary. ..
It suits them but they have to realize as do I haha.
But now I have true friend that gives me heat advice and really gets me thinking how to handle surten things